Saturday, May 17, 2014
Monday, May 5, 2014
MIXED VALUES IN THE SPIRAL
I have experienced the traditional family values
in Albania. Families here demonstrate openly the deep connection we all have to
our childhood relationships with close family – our source of warmth, food and
protection. Those relationships are not
usurped easily, as they often are in the US, by the urge for independence and
identification with peer groups outside the family. The Aqif Ruppli family has culturally
embraced me into their family in the last seven weeks and they are feeling a loss
at my impending departure. I, on the other hand, am anxious for my own
apartment in Shkoder and the new work relationships I will make with the faculty
at the university. In my immediate
experience the values of traditional culture meet
the values of modern culture.
Within a short walking distance of this modest
home I pass the homes of two brothers, a cherished mother and uncountable
cousins.
On the hill beside this home there is a partially completed structure
which will be the future home of the eldest son. As I continue my walk, I
notice that virtually every home has gardens occupying
all available surrounding ground, and lines of pots where
vegetables will emerge soon, grace of the frequent spring rain and coming
warmth. Roses and other flowering plants find their
place in the botanical arrangements. It is not unusual to see chickens
scratching around the edges.
| You can see the unfinished home above for son |
At the moment there are eight of us in this small living
room, eating in turns at the coffee table with the vinyl table cloth that is
cleaned fastidiously between each sitting. The group includes the
immediate family, and two cousins and a grandmother spending the week-end from
a nearby town.
There is laughter and arguing from moment to moment and pleasant
smiles as they see me struggling to understand the meaning of these mild
outbursts.
| Family is life in Albania. They are constantly asking me about mine. |
Soon I
will go to my own apartment in Shkoder and meet my new colleagues and I will choose my own food
and I will drink my chai mal in solitude by an electric heater. I will begin to plan
my classes and the other professional contributions I will make. I am happy as
I anticipate this freedom from family responsibility and I am aware of the
pride I feel in the strength of my independent self-identity.
My journey here is to support the emerging
transition into a market economy and consequently the social values that go
with modernity. I am glad for the benefits that I have gained with my modern American values
of independence, achievement, equality and progress. My experience in Librazhd
has made me aware of the values I have given up.
But I have hope as I continue my spiral
journey. This transition from Librazhd
to Shkoder has reinforced my belief that, even as I move into my final decades, there are other destinations, more in mind than place, where my values
will integrate in new and satisfying blends.
More news of Shkoder to follow. Check in out on Wikipedia. I am happy with my site.
Monday, April 28, 2014
More Focus to My Journey
I went to Tirana to attend a conference organized by the English Language Teachers Association (ELTA). In fact, I was recruited to facilitate a round table discussion about English for Business which is a branch of ESP. (English for Special Purposes). That will be my primary focus while I am here. This Friday I will find out about the city where I will be based. I hope it is Tirana, but it will certainly be in another large city where there is a university where I will teach.
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| Tirana is a modern city with both classic and modern buildings |
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| Tirana has a modern mall with the best shops from US and Europe |
| There are many cafes like this in Tirana |
| I am discussing training materials with a university professor |
Saturday, April 19, 2014
CAN I BREW YOU A CUP OF TEA?
I have made an interesting discovery here in Albania. One of the habits I brought with me to
Albania was my daily consumption of tea which often started with a strong
English breakfast tea and then followed up during the day with green tea.
I even brought my own tea bags with me.
Early in the stay with my host family I learned the Albanian word for
tea which conveniently is “chai” and I drew up the courage to ask for hot-water
so I could make tea. It is against this family’s
tradition for men to make their own food or drink, except it
seems to pour alcohol. So Dashurie
insisted that she serve Mal Chai – or mountain tea. I reluctantly accepted her hospitality and
put my treasured tea bags back into my luggage.
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| not my large cup (my camera is not working) |
Upon first taste I recognized it as an herb tea and while not
as strong as black tea, it was flavorful and very enjoyable with a teaspoon of
sugar. For the last several weeks
Dashurie has taken the dried branches and leaves and made a pot of tea for me when I come home from training. I take it gladly and continue to drink into the night. Noticing my
particularly large consumption, I have now been provided with a very large tea
cup which appears near me whenever I am in the central sitting room, where I am drinking it now as I write this post.
I decided to check ‘MOUNTAIN TEA” on the internet and here is
what I have discovered on Wikipedia.
Sideritis also known as ironwort, mountain tea and
shepherd's tea is a genus of flowering plants well known for their use as
herbal medicine, commonly as an herbal tea. They are abundant in Mediterranean
regions.
In Greek "Sideritis" can be literally translated
as "he who is or has the iron". In ancient times Sideritis was a
generic reference for plants capable of healing wounds caused by iron weapons
during battles. However others hold that the name stems from the shape of the
sepal which resembles the tip of a spear.
Very popular in Greece, Albania, Bulgaria and Macedonia, the
plant is used as an herb either for the preparation of herbal teas, or for its
aromatic properties in local cuisines. The herbal tea is commonly prepared by
boiling the stems, leaves and flowers in a pot of water, then often serving
with honey and lemon.
Ironwort has been traditionally used to aid digestion,
strengthen the immune system and suppress common cold, the flu and other
viruses, allergies and shortness of breath, sinus congestion, even pain and
mild anxiety.
Scientists have suggested that the popular pronouncement of
ironwort as panacea may have some basis in fact. Studies indicate a positive
effect on many common ailments. Ironwort is known scientifically to be
anti-microbial, anti-inflammatory, and anti-oxidant. Significant research has
been done on ironwort confirming its popular use to prevent colds, flu, and
allergies. Most of this research has taken place in universities in the
Netherlands and in Greece, Turkey, Macedonia, Bulgaria, and Albania, where the
plant is indigenous. Also, modern tests have indicated that the herbal tea
helps in the prevention of osteoporosis, while its anti-oxidant properties may
aid in the prevention of cancer.
And so, my friends, when I return home I will
have these dried branches in my luggage and will brew this wonderful tea for you
when we are again together!
Sunday, April 13, 2014
HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN A TRADITIONAL WAY
| Farms outside the village center of Labrazhd |
According to the Spiral we are all continuing to evolve,
individuals and cultures alike. It is a privilege
to experience the cultural blend in this ancient town of Librazhd in a mountain
valley of Albania. Population about 15,000 in the town and surrounding area.
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Yesterday was Saturday and my birthday, but that did not excuse
me from attending my Albanian language class at 8 in the morning. I walked the half mile to the school,
starting down the street of tightly packed houses and continuing into one of the
shopping streets of the town where store owners and street vendors were setting
up their wares for the rush that was soon to come. The air is still cool this time of year, today
the sky was clear and on the mountains in the distance I could see a light
covering of new snow that in the valley we experienced as rain. On the side of the mountain I could see the early greening of the terraced grape vines that have announced the coming of spring
for many years. My thoughts were interrupted
by the calling to prayer from the local mosque, I accepted this as a welcome
reminder that I too should momentarily abandon my attachments and experience my connection to the divine.
| The mosque next to the school |
I finished my ten minute walk on winding
steps up the hill to the concrete block building where I would meet with
five other Americans in training. I met
Zak and Steve outside the building and we stood talking in a pool of sun to warm
ourselves before we entered the cold classroom.
Zak and Steve are accomplished mid-career educational professionals
looking to add an international capability into their already successful
careers. We will work with adult populations
when we complete our training in May. We were soon joined by Jessica, Jefferson
and Quinn who are younger and who will help Albanian teachers in high schools in small towns and villages throughout Albania,
After class at one o'clock I retraced my steps back
to the house (we do have a coffee break at 10 – I always order a hot chocolate which
is more like pudding – the small spoon stands up when placed in the cup!). The streets were now festive with shoppers, teen
girls walking in two or three dressed in their best western jeans, boys standing
in groups watching the girls, children playing hopping games with rocks,
stray dogs, delivery trucks, occasional cars and sometimes a cow or
donkey. There was calling
and shouting in an indecipherable cacophony all around me.
And then, to my surprise, I heard
it. “Hoppy Burthday” - Along the remainder of my walk home - children, teen boys, men sitting in the
sidewalk cafes drinking raki or beer, the beautiful teen girls. “Hoppy Burthday” It wasn't everyone, but many. I did not know these people. My eyes teared as I smiled and acknowledged their warm greetings.
My
host family, who had spread the word, celebrated with me last night in the warm room with the
fireplace. We sang, played dominoes, and ate
a special cake. To the thrill of all in
the room, Bettina joined us on Skype and with her ukulele led us all in a verse
of Happy Birthday. They all spoke her name and wished us well as I carried my wife in my arms (on the lap top) into my room for
some private time.! (We have wireless high speed internet!)
A glance at emerging life(mine and theirs) in a traditional village town of an ancient and poor country. Their dream is to transition into a
modern economy like the America they experience on the internet, on
television, in movies, in popular songs. I am here to provide support to that transition.
More stories to follow.
| Occasionally I am invited to have "coffee." That is another story to follow. |
Thursday, April 3, 2014
CULTURAL HISTORY AND THE SPIRAL
As I witness the behaviors and values which distinguish
Albania it is evident t that I need to understand the historical context and
the effects of Albania's topography and geographical location. I have crafted a brief history from several
articles and conversations. You will also note references to the cultural evolution
model at the bottom of this blog. I mention the color designations for the stages of value orientations. (Spiral Dynamics) Thanks for indulging me this
short academic approach. I have added
some present observations, and there will be more stories to follow.
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| Geography, topography and history have influenced the present conditions and mixed cultural values in Albania today |
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The cultural evolution to a national identity has been
sporadic, largely due to invasions from outside Albania. Occupiers include the Russians, the Italians,
the Germans and the Ottoman Turks. These
invasions attempted to unify the regional groupings into a forced allegiance and
traditional values. (Amber). None was more impactful then the 500 year
occupation of the Ottoman Turks that has left a lingering influence: gender
roles that define male dominance- female subservience, names that reflect
Turkish origins, and social customs such as only men out at night. My host family demonstrates these values as
the females do all the house work, prepare and serve the food and clean up
afterward. The husband returns from the
town where he has been with his friends. While the degree varies, we have learned that
these are the dominate gender roles throughout the country.
After 50 years under a communist regime (Amber), Albania is
emerging into modernity (Orange) which values, rationality, democracy, individualism,
and capitalism. This shift is most evident in the capitol city of Tirana where of
much of the population has a stronger behavioral blend reflective of a modern
worldview. Genti, our Peace Corps
Training Manager who lives in Tirana, has proudly told us that he enjoys
cooking for his family and helping out with the routine chores around the
house.
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Albanian national policy is to transition to modernity and establish
economic and social practices required to become a member of the European
Union. The Peace Corps has been invited here to help build the capacities
necessary to meet that goal. I have
another month of pre-service training, then I will be assigned to a site where
I will begin my work. I can’t wait.
History lesson over, more stories to follow.
Saturday, March 29, 2014
HOME AWAY FROM HOME
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| LIBRAZHD - where I will live for seven weeks |
March 26, 2014
The Peace Corps has placed all volunteers in small towns and
villages for seven weeks before we leave to our final sites where we will begin
work. Here we live with host families
while we attend language/culture classes and receive technical and safety
training. The families receive a modest
stipend for food.
| The seat of honor is next to the fire place |
Each evening finds me in the room that is the center of life
for this family who has offered me their home for the next seven weeks. I am sitting on a love seat against the back
wall, the seat they have conferred to me because it is next to the fireplace
which is the sole source of warmth for this one story home. My gaze can easily catch all the activity in
the room as I sit with my laptop that has a high speed, Wi-Fi internet
connection. There is no heat in the three bedrooms which are the only other
rooms in the home beside the foyer and bathroom.
| The center of family life |
| Saimir in the US |
| Dashurie and Dajana |
Shortly we will all go to our rooms. They have given me one room to myself, a
requirement established by the Peace Corps for all volunteers as we prepare for
our final assignment in May. We will
leave the warmth of our host families and move into our own apartments at the
site where we will make our contribution to those anxious for essential skills
and competencies for this emerging culture.
Tomorrow Aqif will wait yet another day hoping for a phone call that
will offer him an assignment to drive a delivery anywhere in Southern or Western
Europe. Dashsurie will prepare breakfast
and gather her children off to school before she descends the hillside of
tightly placed homes and opens the small roadside stall and sit with her offerings
of cigarettes, chips, newspapers, fruits and other sundries. Occasionally Aqif or one of the older
children will spend some hours to provide her opportunity to do others chores. In the evening, at about 8, Dashurie will return to
prepare our evening meal after she has done the shopping.
Tomorrow will be much the same for this family as it is
with the host families of most of the other 40 volunteers who arrived with me in
Albania last week. Again I will sit in this seat offered to all guests of this
home. I will participate only at the edge of their
life, noticing with wonder and admiration, as I do now, at this life so different
from my own.
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